Dating farting talk

This is a question that I was asked very recently by a friend when told me about her new partner. I asked "is he married" and she replied "I don't know, should I dump him if he is?" I actually thought she was having a joke with me but she was deadly serious. If you have read any of my previous articles you'll know that I have been through this exact same problem, and came through it with a few emotional scars.

I wouldn't say that I don't trust men but I always check them out before I form an opinion. You could class this as paranoid although I'd rather know what I'm getting into before I'm up to my neck in problems.

Anyway! Back to my friends dilemma, the problem she was having was that she had been dating this guy for a few months and hadn't asked him if he was married or not. She was one of the shoulders that I cried on after my relationship went sour because he was married, but she didn't learn from my mistake.

I'm not saying that I'm perfect now because I'm not, I still make silly mistakes with my new guy but I always go back and fix them (but that's another story).

Here lies the major problem, she loves him and say's that he makes her feel special. She went through a tough relationship a couple of years ago with a guy who treated her like a door mat so having someone nice is a real plus for her. I tried to explain what would happen if he is married but she said that she would not knowing.

"Ignorance is bliss" sprung to mind, but again my own experience kicked in and reason took over. I got her new guys details and went home and checked him out for her, guess what? He's not married.

It took me a few attempts to contact my friend because she was scared to pick up the phone in case I'd found out he was married. All of this worry when she knew that all she had to do was ask that simple question, you know the one "Is He Married."

Well! There's no wedding plans or romantic vacations on the cards but at least my friend can go on with her relationship knowing that she won't get a call from some angry wife wanting to know why she stole her husband.

I suppose that there is a moral to this story and this moral has been around for centuries "it's better to be safe than sorry", and the best part about all of this is that her man has no idea that we checked him out, and never will.

I've been in this situation and I have been burned, he was married and I was the last to know and I did learn from my mistakes.

If he's cheating on you he is also cheating on his wife, and how do you know that there isn't a third person that he's also seeing, if he can get away with two timing why not three timing?

I have written more about this matter and my own experiences, so come on over and have a look at my story and how you can avoid being caught in the middle - Is He Married

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